The Curio Chronicles, was written to be funny fast, and a little bit shocking, and with the second book in production which will be titled ‘Curio’s Summer’ due for release this year, I thought I would take a step back, and look at one of the most important aspects of this series of stories.
Before I begin, I will add, that the whole series is based on the life of Abigail Watson, and the friendships she forms with her peers in the first book, Abigail’s Summer. In the first book, she is nineteen years old, and when she arrives in the second book, the story will have leapt five years forward, and will see her enter at age twenty four.
This series charts the growing years from youth into adulthood, and the trends and changes all of us go through as we mature, and like most young people, Abby focuses on image, sex, and love, and it is in this particular area of the story that I hold up a mirror to society, and allow you inside the private aspects of her life. Life changes, and so do we, and as Abby grows up, her choices and tastes subtly change, as what was considered to be wild challenging behaviour, for her at nineteen becomes normalised, and shapes her view of the world.
That story will play out in the books, this particular blog post, is focused on another aspect of the story, and is driven at first, not so much by Abigail, but by her best friend Birch. The focus of this aspect of the blog, is not the sex, booze or parties, it is the very natural state, of being naked.
In all of the books, the act of walking around in daily life, sans clothing, and enjoying the connection of all aspects of life, is a normalised part of living around the Curio group, and it is deliberate in this story, and I may add, a very important part of the story. To Birch, it is not an issue, she is quite open and very matter of fact about it, which at first is startling for Abby. Birch has no interest in other people’s views, to her the human form is not a thing of shame, and she really does not care what others think about it, which in today’s society is a very challenging message.
Birch will argue that to undress, to then put clothing back on to swim, is pointless, and foolish. “Why lie around in a cold wet bathing suit shivering?” She asks. For her that is stupidity, when the body dries faster and warms up quicker, lay on a lounger at the side of the pool. In the first book, she happily walks naked out of the house onto the street with her mother to say goodbye, and stands waving, much to the shock and horror of Gwenda Perkins across the road, who immediately rings Marjorie, to tell her the horrifying details, of the ‘Brazen Hussy.’
Even Abby who is naked, is hiding behind the door shouting to her that she has no clothes on, and needs to get back in the house quick, of which Birch has no understanding of the urgency. For her, the natural body, is simply that, a body, just like everyone else’s. her argument is, “We are born naked, and die naked, and everything in between is up to us, and I will not be ashamed of the form I was born in.”
To Birch, the human form should not be shamed, it is the one thing we have little choice over, and she admits, she has ‘great tits and a killer ass,’ why should she be embarrassed of being looked at, she thinks it is worth looking at, and what at first appears like an innocent joke in the plot of the book, actually becomes a powerful message to all the readers, which is, ‘why are we so ashamed of our body, it is who we are as a person?’
It is a very powerful statement, but within the folds of the story, it becomes completely normalised, to such an extent that by the end of the first book, the whole group swims naked, dry’s off and sits in Abby’s guest house, and spend the night all naked, chatting, and having drinks together. For the group, it is not sexual, it is comfort, freedom, and body confidence, and a very normal and natural thing to do. This is reinforced by Hatty, an artist who sees great beauty in all naked bodies, which is why she paints them.
In today’s society, most people reading this would gasp, and make statements such as, “I could never do that,” or “have they no shame?” That is the very point the book makes, and raises the question, “Why is it shameful?”
Abby makes the point to Mary in the post office when she enquires about Birch’s lack of remorse when she told Marjorie she was a naturist. “We spend a lot of time naked; it is good for the body you know, and is wonderful for the mind and inner happiness.” She then adds, “we are all born naked, why would anyone be ashamed of that?” Mary who is a secret naturist, afraid of being shammed, is actually really impressed, and responds. “I think you have a very positive attitude, Abigail; I must admit, I admire your confidence.”
It is an important and powerful message to give out, and it is there in the book for a reason, and is a direct dig at today’s so-called socially acceptable culture.
So, let’s look at why we have been raised to believe that our own personal human form is shocking and shameful. Today we live in a world that has firstly been shaped by religion, the whole foundations of modern civilised society have been moulded around firstly Christianity, and then in more modern times by other religious beliefs, so where does this come from?
Now I have no interest in other people’s spiritual or religious beliefs, I have my own thoughts on my personal spirituality, and I believe them to be private, and personal, so I have no issues with what anyone else chooses to follow. The facts are evident, and that is my sole focus here, simply the facts. So, looking back through time to those few hundred years after the death of Christ, it is a known fact, that Rome was suffering under the popular supporters of Mithra, a pagan deity, and the senate was losing ground. Mithra supporters were celebrating on mass, which involved all aspects of humanity, and a lot of nudity and feasting, in common terms, supporting Mithra led to a lot of orgies and parties, it was a pretty fun experience, what was not to like about going to that church, lol?
The senate embraced and encouraged the rise of Christianity, because as has been documented, ‘it was more about controlled worship.’ Now again, I have no judgement on that, but it is a fact, that it was embraced, solely to control the popular masses. It is also interesting that it was Christianity that also played a major role in the fall of Rome, so go figure. I digress, the rise of the Christian church, played a massive role in what we now consider the civilised world, my vote is still out on civilised, but that is an argument for another day. The church used shame as it’s deadliest weapon for many hundreds of years, as is seen in many of the very puritanical offshoots of Christianity.
A lot of the rules and laws of the land were based on the teachings of the church, who were influencial, and are a major factor in the creation of what we now call the Western Civilised World. It is important to understand that opinion has been shaped and established through a religion that was focused on control, and even though religion has fallen in numbers in recent decades, it has still been a major influence of conservative attitudes. I cannot deny, I do love the irony, of the fact the first two people created by God, Adam and Eve, were both naked vegetarians living in a garden, not unsimilar to the Curio’s.
Now again, I have no interest in the politics of religion, but it does appear to me, that God’s intention through Adam and Eve was a race who were naked, and not ashamed of their naked bodies. I cannot help but pose the question, why has the church deviated from that, and shamed humanity? I get the whole apple and sin argument, but again, have to ask, if we have been forgiven all of our sins through the death of Christ, why is nudity still shamed, when it was God’ initial intention?
That was the first phase, and now we have the second, capitalism and the free market economy. I actually think this aspect of modern life, is far more corrosive, as it does a few things I am unhappy about. Greed for money, has become the real virus of society, and I do not say that lightly, but it is true. Yes, we all need to live, and as you have probably noticed, you have to pay through the nose to have that basic human right in a Western democracy.
The most corrosive aspect of capitalism, is Media, it is the tool of the elite, and oh boy is it powerful? Advertising and data mining are now the biggest collectors and shapers of public opinion on the planet, and both have one goal, feed the rich. I have a particular distaste for shareholders, I, like Birch, see them as the scourge of society, they are viler than tax collectors, because all they care about is money, and they have no scruples as to how it comes in, just as long as it does. Shareholders want profit, and they wield a great deal of power, and so under their direction, pressure is applied to make more cash.
They shape media, Mainstream and Social to their view of the world, and like religion, they demand compliance and control, they literally write the narrative, and Birch despises them. The main vehicle for these controllers of society, is advertising and shame, which when linked with the lingering attitudes of religion, can serve a fatal blow to all of us, and it does, in more ways than we realise, Birch points out the immorality of it in the second book.
Everyday women especially, but men are catching up, are bombarded with signals from every angle, millions of them, and they are subtle, cruel, and divisive. Articles, adverts, the structure of TV shows, and even some more modern video games target our weaknesses, which is namely, our body, our looks, and how we live.
We are told, your hair is not right, use this, don’t allow yourself to be fat, when you can use this special new and improved wonder diet. Wear this new designer labelled clothing and hide your shame, you are too ugly, use this makeup, and it goes on and on and one, in a never ending stream of paid for personal attacks and insults, all packaged in a nice sophisticated way, from school age until the coffin, and I often say to my kids. “Stop listening to them, they are paid for lies!”
Social media banned female nipples, have you ever heard of such a stupid rule? Men’s nipples are fine, I could post a whole stream of my endless nipples, and not get banned, yet, if I posted a picture of my wife’s nipple, I would get banned, as it is ‘SEXUAL’ No it’s not, its natural, and I would add normal, every single human being has them, so why do we only sexualise one kind, and not the other? I mean come on, there is not a huge difference in the look, it is the function that is the main difference.
At this point I will ask, how is using a part of the human body to feed a child sexual? The simple answer is it is not, and yet, it is banned. I often wonder why women’s movements are not outraged and up in arms about this, after all, Twitter is filled with women who are screaming about how women’s nipples are sexualised by men. Okay so let me ask this, why are men’s nipples not sexualised? The truth is, they are not, because we have all been desensitised to them, but how? Well, we put them on show and everyone got sick of looking at them. It may surprise you to find, that at one time, it was illegal for men to be topless, and men did not agree, so they rallied on a beach in the USA, took off their tops and defied the law, and got arrested.
It caused such an outcry, that men all over America rallied around and demanded change, and they flocked on mass to the beach, and defied the law and went topless, and a few years later, the law was changed, and now it is a common sight to see a man without his top. Feminists should be outraged by that, and demand equality, and attack social media for being discriminate, and yet they do not.
The bra industry earns, seventeen trillion dollars a year, exploiting woman. Science has proven beyond doubt, that wearing a bra does not keep the boobs firm, it actually weakens the tissue and muscles under the breast, so they flop and grow saggy over time, and yet billions of women every day, believe the lies and suffer wearing one. Why are women not fighting back for their rights to be braless, as the teens of my 1960s 70s youth did? Once again, I ask, why are women so afraid of showing the outline of a nipple through clothing? They wear pants, which shows the outline of a bum, and yet that is not an issue. I have to pose the question, why are women allowing a part of their natural form to be shammed?
Whether you like it or not, your body is not and should not be shamed for money or opinion. Today our teens are getting reconstructive surgeries, to change aspects of their bodies, and more and more teens are suffering from body dysmorphia leading to eating disorders. Kids struggle with their weight, because junk food is cheaper than healthier food, but filled with a long list of additives and preservatives, that poison their systems. A salad is literally more expensive than a burger, and modern advertisers lie to them in order to get all of their money with slogans like, ‘I’m lovin it.’ Yeah, the shareholders are, they are rolling in cash. When you work out that a fast food fry has over twenty two ingredients in it, you have to step back in shock, and ask why, it is a potato that has been fried?
Why are schools and parents, not educating their children better, and pointing out the serious implications of their behaviour? Why are we not telling our kids to understand their bodies without shame, and take better care of them? Instead of educating them, they encourage them, and it has become and endless cycle of bad habits from generation to generation, all happily complying with the endless rhetoric of their master manipulators, who run social and mainstream media at the expense of their children’s mental and physical well being.
Take a really good look at Social Media, which has a massive influence on our young. I look at what my kids are seeing, which is usually driven by young twenty to twenty five year olds, known as ‘Influencers.’ I want to punch all of the self entitled little shits in the face. Their narrow minded, and blinkered view of the world, is corrosive and damaging to the minds of our young. Why are we letting these uneducated idiots educate our children with sponsored video’s? I constantly hear, the young are the future, and it scares the hell out of me, because if you watch them, you can see how sponsors are placing products in all of their videos and posts. These kids get rich, at the expense of all of ours, by violating their minds, and adding to the self loathing our children feel about their bodies. When will this stop?
If you have kids, take some time out and seriously look at the drivel they watch. Look like this, do that, you need this are the messages, and every one of them drives body dysmorphia to an epidemic level, no wonder our kids are depressed? They will never have that look, or fit into the one size fits all box, or attain that beauty. The reason why, is simple, it is fake, photo shopped and unrealistic, so what do they do, they offer filters to improve your looks on photo’s driving the ‘you’re not pretty enough message home,’ which is destroying our children’s self confidence, and all with a subliminal caption of, ‘look how pretty and acceptable you are now.’ The thought of nudity, terrifies these influencers, who have been groomed for their roles by social media policies.
The irony here, is they call it social media, and it is not, it is advertising media, and nudity is their kryptonite. Look at it this way, if you actually love your body and are not ashamed by it, advertisers have less influence over you, and so you will not click their links to their products, and that is why nipples or any form of nudity are banned. Oh yeah, they talk about the children being harmed, but that is a smoke screen, the real truth is, they want full control to sell products, and they pray on insecurity. How else does a free platform make billions a year… Advertising, by praying on your weakness, and making you ashamed of who you are, that is how.
They drive unrealistic expectations and body hatred, and we sit back and wonder why half our kids are narcissists and the other half are manically depressed? It is immoral, disgraceful, and offensive, and they should be imprisoned for the damage they have done to society, but sadly they won’t be, because their lobbyists will continue to throw cash at governments, and they will never get shut down, it is a slap to the face of all humanity. We all should ask, when will this end and how do we stop it? I would suggest, one body positive person at a time.
The cure is simple, Birch shows you the way. Screw what others think, love your body, embrace it, strip off the layers of those who would enslave you with their lies and shaming, and own who you are. Do not hide your body, accept it, worship it, love it, and embrace it, most importantly, own it, and show the real value of the person you are. The greatest thing about being naked, is it is impossible to hide who you really are, people get to see the true you, the real you, not the fake you that hides behind designer clothing and makeup. Stop letting the world tell you to be ashamed of yourself, and pay through the nose for a cure that will never work. Cherish what you came into world wearing, because contrary to popular opinion, your body is not shameful, it is beautiful.
Listen to Birch and the Curio’s, and for the first time in your life, embrace your real truth, your only truth, and love the body you wear. Nature is exactly that, it is natural, and whether you want to believe it or not, you are a natural being, and your skin, is your natural clothing. Try resisting all the latest trends, and avoid wasting money on all those products they tell you that you need for one month, walk round the house naked and feel the power of seeing your own reflection, and see how better you feel, and how much money you save.
In order to write the Curio stories, I spent a lot of time, talking and listening to Naturists, as they explained their concept of the life that they lived. It was fascinating, and I very quickly understood, that they were just normal people, from every walk of life. The main difference that I found, was that they came across as being kinder, more open minded, and certainly more accepting and welcoming than most of the dressed people I meet in life. Their age groups varied from young to old, and I learned a great deal about simply being a normal human being. I know weird right? The truth be told, I found their company friendlier and more inviting than dressed people, they were certainly more in tune with the world, and very respectful.
It impressed me to hear, how naturisum is actually pretty normal, and when you consider the point, naked is actually our natural state. I can certainly say, I find the media and capitalist approach to life with its shame and ridiculed filled advertising a lot less natural, and not at all beneficial to the human race, and maybe in that, Birch has a point?
Get on the internet, and get off social media, and read up on the health benefits of being naked, and you will find a whole range of mass benefits from mental health, to physical health. It calms the mood, and you sleep so much better, and if you actually think about it, it is the most normal aspect of all of us, it is not sexual, it is who you are.
Surely it is time, to start to beat social media and the mainstream at their own game, by educating our children, that our natural human form is not shameful, and is not sexual? We need to step up to the plate before another generation suffers the cruel effects of our world, and its attack on our private personal selves. Children who are taught to accept themselves, are better more rounded individuals in life, and a part of that, is understanding their natural body, is their own private and completely unique form, and no one has the right to tell them different and shame them for it.
The Curio Chronicles was always about a tongue in cheek approach to looking at life through the lens of a wide focus, unlike the narrow focus applied to social so called norms. Yes the books are sexually suggestive, but why is that wrong, and why is that shamed, when again it is a very important aspect of everybody’s life, as is nudity? After all, we never shower with our clothing on, and if you think about it, we always feel wonderful after a shower?
In book one, Roni states during her speech those four words of control. ‘What will People Say?’ That is the moment the self worth dies and the shame begins, and it is up to all of us, to follow her next piece of advice. ‘Does It Really Matter?’
Be curious, and be you.
Curio’s Summer, the second part of the Curio Chronicles series, will be available in spring 2022.
The Curio Chronicles part one Abigail’s Summer by Robin John Morgan, is available in Digital and Print format from all online sources and apps.
